To continue the thought of yesterday(yes, not done yet), I haven't truly discuss what do I mean by TRUE FRIEND & TRUE-SELF.
Yesterday, I've discussed who TRUE FRIENDS are, and who are not. Today, I'm going to discuss why TRUE FRIENDS are "important" in our lives, and how they can affect our behaviors. Like I said, TRUE FRIENDS are the ones that accept the REAL YOU, no matter who you are, and what you behave like.( well, of course, your personality fits the friend that they define what TRUE FRIENDS are.) If a friend REALLY LIKES YOU, they like who you are, not who you trying to pretend to fit in the friend. (note the difference here, you don't have to be someone else when you are with your TRUE FRIEND.) I've met friends like that. They get close to you just because they want to have a person who they can talk to no matter what. Honestly, people our age are not normally a big fan of Disney stars(at least people surrounds me), BUT if they truly likes to treat you like a friend, they don't JUDGE what you like. I've got to admit, I like Hannah Montana, and those "so-called" "friends" will just be like, "SERIOUSLY,THAT'S WHO YOU LIKE?!" But TRUE-FRIEND will just say, "I'm not a big fan of Hannah Montana, but if you like her, maybe I'll like her too, would you show me why you like her?" THAT IS TRUE FRIEND. They may not have the exact same interest as you, but they will try to understand why. Isn't that just what TRUE FRIENDS do? We share our interests, discuss what we like and what we don't like so much, and accept what other one likes, even though you are not a big fan of it. TRUE FRIENDS DO NOT STEP AWAY WHEN YOU NEED THEM!!! I've met too many "so-called" "friends" who came up to me just for homework, and when I'm not yet done with stuff, or I'm not figuring out some questions, they will just say, " Go! I believe you can do it! Tell me when you do." BUT A TRUE FRIEND does it differently, "Is there something I can do to help you get that thing solved?" ONLY A TRUE FRIEND DOES THAT!!( and I'm not saying friends that are in the same class, friends outside of the class, who doesn't even have a clue about what I'm stuck, tried using the knowledge they have, and do some research to help me!)
I just feel like I can be who I REALLY AM around these specific people who I called TRUE FRIENDS. I don't have to pretend I'm ALL PERFECT around them. I CAN ACT REALLY DUMB in front of them, and we enjoy laughing and joking around with each others' mistakes, but try to help each other out when we are having a problem.
To sum up today, I just want to say. IT TAKES A TRUE FRIEND TO CARRY A TRUE-SELF OUT!!!! And that is true. If a friend really is a TRUE FRIEND, you don't have to pretend to who you are not, BE YOURSELF, so you CAN find your TRUE FRIEND.
For song of the day.....I want to share Ordinary Girl- Hannah Montana.
Remember this... You DON'T HAVE TO BE SOMEONE WHO YOU ARE NOT, just like the ordinary girl in the song, you can do all those dumb stuff, BUT YOU CAN STILL FIND YOUR TRUE FRIEND EVEN IF YOU ARE ORDINARY(meaning YOU ARE YOUR SELF!!)
So true emily ;))))
ReplyDeleteAll of us shouldn't be afraid to BE WHO We R!!!!!
I was inspired by Miley when she tweeted, something like this(I might be paraphrasing),"I don't care what people say about me, I am who I am,and there's nothing you can do to take that away from me!" And Justin Bieber," Haters' gonna hate, but I am going to be myself." Now, I want to help people to see it's ok to be themselves from this blog, with some of my stories." Thanks for the support Chanda!! If you can, spread this blog to people you think needed some support! :))
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